If your relationship has been a disaster then how come a new one will work? Are you really ready for a relationship or it is something that you just want because people around you are having it? There are plenty of questions you should ask yourself before even thinking of being in a relationship. We know that it takes more time than we think to move on no matter how much you convince yourself. Sometimes people get into another relationship just to show their ex that they can live without them while in their mind their ex is still running. Sometimes people get into a relationship because they cannot stay single for long enough. These silly situations ruin relations and the beauty of being in a relationship.
We have some questions for you which you are going to ask yourself and if you are true to yourself you are going to find the answer today.
Have you moved on?
Yes, this is true if your phone has become your best friend then congratulations you are in love. You keep on waiting for her calls and messages but if your phone is not giving you ant notification then this is something which makes you feel restless. You always want to talk to her and cannot wait for her calls. If this is happening to you then definitely you are in love.
Are you just bored?
If you are just bored of your life and don't know what else to do then it is not the time to get into a new relationship. Know that relation is not to entertain you and if you just want a relationship for the sake that you want some entertainment in life then you are wrong. The other person might not have that feeling and may be serious so you also need to be serious.
Are you happy with yourself?
It is a wise question to ask yourself if you know what you are dealing with. You need to ask yourself that do you enjoy your own company or are you satisfied with your life? If you are not satisfied with your life then you cannot make someone else happy. Do not bother to let anyone enter your life until you are not messed up with your life.
Are you stable in your life?
You have to understand that stability is important in your life and you have to offer it to your partner too. If you are not stable they may find it harder to cop up with you. You have to bring stability first and then let anyone enter your life. However there might be some people who would love to help you and find mental as well as physical stability in your life. Though some of you will agree on this that our better half brings more joy, happiness along with some more responsibilities. So better be fully prepared for it otherwise you will not be able to make your relation work.
Are you too emotional?
If you are too emotional and cannot stay strong when you are on your own then it will be a problem for you. It is going to be a problem because being too emotional makes us weak and sometimes we do foolish things unintentionally. No matter how mature you are you will always make more mistakes and will hurt your relationship if you are too emotional. Being practical all the times is difficult though when you are in a relationship. Love is a strong feeling and never let's anything mess with it. Our mind also stops running when we are in love. So a few mistakes can be forgotten. Try to be more balanced towards your relationship and don't act immature.
Do ask yourself these questions so that you can get a fresh start on your new relationship. After a complete blunder no one wants to repeat the same things in their life. So it is always a wise move to think before making a big decision of our life. Best of Luck!